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Glasses
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Contacts
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| enter each day blind |
can see as soon as my eyes open - like a miracle cure! |
| enter the shower blind |
so that's what the soap looks like |
| feeling around for glasses I can't see |
can put on mascara and makeup and can see what
I'm doing |
| make a statement |
quite enough of my body is speaking already without frames chiming in, have
personality enough |
| I have goggles against wind |
I got
dust blown in my eyes more until my body re-learned to blink reactively
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when I
come inside I fog up, have raindrops or melting snow blocking
my vision
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new
sensations when I walk outside I can feel rain and snow fall on my
eyelids, eyelashes, on the top of my cheeks that were always protected by
lenses
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| old ones can be donated away to the 3rd
world |
I have to throw these expensive things out every month |
| I can make do for 5 or 6 years with the same prescription or frames |
It's more expensive to buy 6 or 12 month batches of contacts |
| some new frames take a week or two to come in
after being ordered, other ones, only an hour |
got the trial pair in the same apppointment as the eye test |
| titanium frames can't be welded, apparently, and there
seems to be few standards for screw types if a screw works itself loose
but if it breaks in the hands of the store worker, they'll fix it at
their cost |
can't be "fixed" only replaced, at your cost. |
| keep needing adjustment by someone else
with a hot sand machine and it seems to rarely be done right, pressing too hard
on the ears or else slipping down the nose |
if they're blurry or uncomfortable I can fix it. I've become very
aware of how I treat my body. whenever I miss too much sleep, my eyes don't get
enough watering in the night and feel dry.
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| the pain of shopping for new frames without
being able to see for myself what I look like, getting my hair cut with my
glasses off and not being able to see what she's doing |
judging for myself, real time |
| deal with salepeople cyclically who
have opinions on what my fashion should be based on my face shape (which
incidentally is round, heart-shaped, long or just off perfect square depending
on the clerk or haircutter) |
deal with a doctor cyclically who has knowledge
and machines to test my vision |
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bumping frame edges into things |
no
problems with pullovers catching, poking or colliding when lying down or
hugging
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| forces my hand to my face more to adjust and fuss, reinforcing
self-conscious gestures |
hands can twiddle safely out of sight when necessary
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| stress of fumbling around, figuring out where I
left my eyes, glasses getting stepped on, dropped off a table (not an issue
that applies to a lot of organized people I know but I've stepped on a
pair every 5 or 7 years) |
on my face which I have lost and gained but
never once forgotten or misplaced. Foot in mouth is as close
as I've gotten to stepping on it. new lenses are tucked away in bubble pack in
small box until needed. |
| when I lean over railings or am at a sports game, tightness in my
chest of worry that my glasses may fall off or be knocked off,
and be scratched or broken |
It's a
medical device in direct contact with my organs of vision. If I am stubborn and
wear them longer than I should, my eyes get red and vision blurs and I could
permanently damage my eyes with carelessness
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| cleaning liquid uncomfortable off-gassing, tissues never at hand |
and need to clean so often, kleenex may be "with lotion" that smears them
worse
can put them on backwards and have to take them out and try again. need to be
conscious to keep them wet when putting them in and if I don't wear them for a
day to change the water |
| I swim blind because I'm not going to spring for prescription
goggles |
I can swim with normal goggles
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| smudging |
clear vision, sharper than with my glasses and better peripheral vision, no
"ghosts" (reflections and frames) to filter out
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| before I go to sleep the whole room goes blurry |
I can see the stars as I fall asleep |